Keeping a consistent correspondence
Book VI Definition 1 combines equal corresponding angles with proportional adjacent sides. The pairing must follow one consistent order around each polygon; exchanging a side pair to rescue one equation changes the comparison.
All rectangles have right angles, but a two-by-four rectangle is not similar to a two-by-six rectangle. Their aspect ratios differ. Equality of corresponding angles alone is insufficient for polygons in general.
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The special case of triangles
VI.4 establishes proportional corresponding sides for triangles with equal corresponding angles. Its equiangular triangles need not each have three equal angles: the equality compares the two triangles.
Triangles with sides three, four, five and six, eight, ten share a scale factor of two. They are similar but not congruent. Changing just one side destroys that uniform proportional relationship.
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Length and area scales
VI.19 relates similar-triangle areas to the square of the corresponding-side ratio. Tripling every length multiplies area by nine rather than three.
Conversely, equal area does not determine shape: a narrow triangle and a wider one can have the same area without matching angles or side ratios. Similarity, congruence and area equality answer different questions.
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